Nos han vendido la mentira de que amar es aguantarlo todo.
Que si sufres, entonces amas de verdad.
Que si te duele, es porque est\u00e1s dando el alma.
Mentira. Pura mierda disfrazada de poes\u00eda.<\/p>\n
El amor verdadero no exige que te anules.
No te pide que pierdas tu dignidad para mantener a alguien a tu lado.
No te pone en segundo plano con la promesa de que \u201calg\u00fan d\u00eda\u201d cambiar\u00e1.
Eso no es amor, eso es dependencia emocional, miedo al abandono, apego t\u00f3xico.<\/p>\n
Hay quienes creen que cuanto m\u00e1s sacrifican, m\u00e1s merecen ser amados.
Pero eso es solo la trampa perfecta de quien aprendi\u00f3 a conformarse con migajas.
El sacrificio permanente no te convierte en fuerte, te convierte en esclavo(a).
Y el amor no necesita esclavos.<\/p>\n
\u00bfQuieres saber si amas o si dependes?
F\u00e1cil:
\u2013 \u00bfTe sientes libre o encarcelado(a)?
\u2013 \u00bfTe respetas o te traicionas para que no se vaya?
\u2013 \u00bfCreces o te marchitas?<\/p>\n
Porque si est\u00e1s luchando solo(a), si todo el esfuerzo es tuyo, si sientes que vives con el alma rota pero sigues ah\u00ed \u201cpor amor\u201d, entonces no est\u00e1s amando<\/strong>: est\u00e1s sobreviviendo<\/strong>.<\/p>\n El amor no es dolor. Eso que t\u00fa llamas amor\u2026 quiz\u00e1s es solo miedo. Pero te digo algo: No te vendas la idea de que amar es sufrir. Nos han vendido la mentira de que amar es aguantarlo todo.Que si sufres, entonces amas de verdad.Que si te duele, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3009,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3008","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-crecimiento-personal"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lipoart.es\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3008","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lipoart.es\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lipoart.es\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lipoart.es\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lipoart.es\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3008"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/lipoart.es\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3008\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3012,"href":"https:\/\/lipoart.es\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3008\/revisions\/3012"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lipoart.es\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3009"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lipoart.es\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3008"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lipoart.es\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3008"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lipoart.es\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3008"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
El amor no es aguantar hasta quedarte vac\u00edo.
El amor no es entregarlo todo mientras el otro solo recoge.<\/p>\n
Miedo a la soledad.
Miedo a soltar.
Miedo a no volver a encontrar a alguien.<\/p>\n
Prefiero mil veces la soledad con paz, que una relaci\u00f3n donde me pierdo todos los d\u00edas.<\/strong>
El amor no te destruye, el amor te construye.
Todo lo dem\u00e1s\u2026 es dependencia emocional camuflada.<\/p>\n
Eso es bullshit.
Y t\u00fa vales demasiado para seguir pagando el precio de una relaci\u00f3n que te sangra el alma.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"